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The Japanese Bow: How to Do It the Right Way

In shops, in the streets, on the phone… You may have noticed that Japanese people bow all the time! Japan has a lot of hidden rules and manners, but the habit of bowing is evident.

Why and When Do Japanese People Bow?

Ojigi, the “bow,” is essential for the Japanese people, especially when doing business. An adult who can’t correctly bow will be labeled rude or childish. Although the bow is routinely used in Japan, there are nuances that even some Japanese people might ignore! If you intend to do business with Japanese people, it is better to know the basics of the bow and its meanings. And if you want to work in Japan, you will soon have plenty of opportunities to practice!

Ojigi can express many things: salutation, gratitude, apologies, and respect. Nevertheless, they are rarely used between friends and family members. In non-business situations, the “bow” is primarily used for your elders, superiors, strangers, and acquaintances.

Ojigi: Dos and Don’ts

  • If you are a man, you can keep your hands on the side of your body or keep your hands together in front of you. If you are a woman, you should keep your hands together in front of you.
  • In a business context with foreigners, most Japanese people will shake hands with them and bow slightly simultaneously. You will give an excellent impression to your business partner if you do the same.
  • Say your greetings after you bow. This proper manner is called gosen-gorei in Japanese. However, many people bow while speaking!
  • Don’t curve your back. Keep it straight as a mark of respect.
  • Don’t join your palms in front of your chest to greet! This is a common mistake among foreigners visiting Japan for the first time. This kind of greeting is used in other countries, such as Thailand. In Japan, this is mainly seen in places of worship.
In Japan this gesture is related to prayer.

The Different ‘Levels’ of Bowing

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Exploring the heart of Japan through people, places, and experiences.

Amélie Geeraert
Amélie Geeraert

Written by Amélie Geeraert

Living in Japan since 2011. I love interviewing inspiring people.

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