December 2021 Edition
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I hope this email finds you well.

If you visit Japan for a short time or if you live there for several years, either way, you are bound to experience culture shock. It is like a roller coaster of emotions going through excitement, disappointment, and acceptance of a culture that differs from yours. The cycle is not linear and the experience varies depending on the individual.

However, it is important to acknowledge that obstacles, mistakes, and irritation are normal parts of your personal "Japan experience." Although unpleasant at first, after some time they will appear for what they truly are: an opportunity for growth, better knowledge of the local culture, and observation of the values you hold dear.

I hope you will enjoy the different culture shock experiences told in the following articles!

Amélie, chief editor of Kokoro Media

Food for Thoughts

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"I do get a little leeway as a foreigner, especially—and surprisingly—with Japanese guests. For example, when I’m serving lunch, the atmosphere might be a little stuffy. So, I will deliberately make a small, unoffensive mistake—placing a dish in a slightly different location, for example. This gives me a chance to say something like, 'Oh, I’m sorry. I didn’t do that quite right. Japanese cuisine can be complicated. English cuisine is simple.'
This silly interaction relaxes the room, and prompts the guest to say, 'So, you’re from England…' Then, we’ll end up having an entire conversation. This creates a more enjoyable experience for all of us."

Gary Luscombe, Ryokan Employee

Click here to read Gary's full account of his experience working in the Japanese hospitality industry.

Quick Read

Our Most Memorable Mistakes in Japan and What You Can Learn from Them
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We’ve all made mistakes, whether they be related to culture, business, or relationships, during our time abroad.

In this edition of Kokoro Media Unfiltered, the editorial team got together for a free-flowing chat about the most memorable mistakes we’ve made related to life in Japan.

Read more

Rich Read

Culture Shock: Dealing with Your Own Foreignness
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"For some reason, during a low point in my culture shock experience, I could not help feeling frustrated by the sight of Japanese houses. I missed the wide brick and mortar and vast yards of houses back home. Japanese houses were just a dumb idea."

In this article, our writer Kelsey explores her personal experience with culture shock. Although everyone experiences it at different times and in different ways, everyone living in Japan has dealt with it in some way.

If you enjoyed this, you will like these articles:

Narrowing the Gap between Japan and the Rest of the World: An Interview with Rochelle Kopp
Unlocking the Power of Professional Networking in Japan: An Interview with Sayuri Nishimoto
My Japanese Supermarket Culture Shocks
Small Talk across Cultures: Adjusting to Office Life in Tokyo
Working for a Japanese Company: How to Express Your Individuality While Maintaining Harmony
Expressing Love in Japanese Culture
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